“Breaking the Cycle: A Journey from Addiction to Self-Discovery

Adrian V
3 min readJan 10, 2024

My story is a difficult one to share, not just because of the pain it holds, but also due to the deep sense of shame that lingers from my past. Yet, I’ve come to realize that there’s strength in vulnerability, so here I am, ready to bare my soul about the transformative journey I’ve undergone in the last ten years.

Since my earliest memories, the ability to take decisive action and maintain productivity has consistently been a significant hurdle. This pattern persisted through my school days, across my university education, and seeped into my professional career. I found myself always brimming with grand visions and innovative ideas, but there was a disconnect; I struggled to bring these aspirations to fruition. The constant battle to move from thought to action wasn’t just a source of frustration; it deeply affected my spirit.

This frustration pushed me into a downward spiral of instant gratification and addiction. I was desperate to escape the reality of my failures and shortcomings, and so I turned to digital distractions for solace. My days were consumed by endless hours on YouTube, Netflix, video games, and pornography. These became my mechanisms for coping, my way to momentarily forget the pain and shame that gnawed at me. Seeking refuge in various distractions, I soon realized, was akin to a two-sided…

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